Are You Having An Affair With Dysfunction?

Some people hear themselves say they hate something or some situation. Some even know that what they think precedes the spoken word. Taken a step further some people even know they create their reality by their own thoughts and feelings. Still they chose to remain in unhappy situations changing neither the pattern of thought nor the pattern of speech. With all this knowing where is the understanding?

Are you having a passionate affair with the dysfunctional nature of your life? Are you attached to what you hate? Is it serving you in such a way that you just can’t let go?  Are you recreating the very thing you do not like such as ending a relationship just to start another one with the same patterns of dysfunction? What an interesting choice indeed.

But Why?

Perhaps it is a choice to align with suffering. Is the unseen pattern emanating a vibration that deems suffering necessary and worthy to prove ones love to God or anyone else for that matter? Is it a way to gain attention? Is there a hidden pattern within you that says you are not worthy of a life filled with joy and happiness? Is the deep unconscious inner dialogue sending messages like this?

Negative Self Talk

As I suffer I become worthy of God’s love. I suffer to prove my love for him/her. See how I suffer for you. That proves how much I love you. Look at what I have given up for you. As long as he/she is happy its alright. I hate this but I can’t change it because I must do this or that. I hate my job but I have to keep it because of this or that. I could never be so lucky as him/her. What’s the use? It always turns out like this no matter what I do. I just have to put up with this another week, month, year.

What Is Happening?

Random and consistent negative self talk is how people create by default. This has nothing to do with the vibration of love. It is the vibration of love that sets us free. Where is the love of Self in all the suffering, self-loathing and hate felt for parts or all of ones life? Even if the dysfunction is in just one area of life it is still too much. There is no more room for hating.

This affair with dysfunction does have a lot in common with fear, false beliefs such as, We are here to suffer; life is hard, I am not worthy etc. It does inspire guilt in the self and in others. Where there is guilt there is no room for love. Is it perhaps a twisted tool to manipulate others for love and attention? Does it seem easier to complain and hate rather than take a stand and create a better way? How could that be? That sounds so dark and ugly, but as a wise man said, “Show me where God is not.” Ask Him to light your way.

We Are So Much More:

Beauty lies at the core of our being. Choosing to remain in an unhappy situation or recreate more of the same is to deny our own deep inner beauty from expressing in our life. We must recognize and understand that we are creating our life. Dive deep within yourself and discover the driving force that attracts and holds people or situations in your life that bring you no joy. Self discovery requires personal and direct participation in our own life. That is the wonder and beauty of living on magical planet Earth, the place we currently call home. We are so powerful we create our own life. Now what would you like to change? What beauty do you have hiding within that longs to see the light of day?

Where Does Your Passion Lie?

Are you having a passionate affair with your dysfunction? Do you say or think, “ I hate this or that” but never stop to wonder why it is still in your life? Do you think or say “I can’t stand this anymore” and yet make no changes? If this strikes a chord in you listen to what your inner voice is saying. What is the vibrational nature of your thoughts? What are the feelings that run through your energy field on a daily basis?

Begin a Passionate Affair with Life:

We are here to have a passionate affair with all that we love in life. We are here to live the best life ever by conscious design. We are here to let the flame of passion burn brightly illuminating the beauty of life for others and ourselves.

Be A Light unto Yourself

~Buddha~

We are here to hold the flame of love so others may begin to see that life is joyous and responsibility is a blessing. Being responsible reflects our inner strength and courage as well as our faith and trust in our ability to create the life we desire with the assistance of a loving and ever expanding Creator. We have suffered long enough. Ask for help from Mother/ Father God or your guides. Let go of the need to attach or cling to the dysfunctional parts of your life. Begin a beautiful passionate affair with life itself. You and those around you will not be disappointed. 🙂

Love Astara

2 Comments to “Are You Having An Affair With Dysfunction?”

  1. By Harriger, September 15, 2010 @ 4:44 pm

    Usually I do not post on blogs, but I would like to say that this article really forced me to do so! Thanks, really nice article.

  2. By Samantha, October 13, 2010 @ 5:50 pm

    I love this one Astara. You are such a gem on this planet.

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